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Finding the one is great, but how can you be sure she is the one? This tells you things you should ask yourself as well as warning signs you should look out for.

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So when it comes to relationships this is the ultimate goal. The end result of dating. Finding that one woman who you love and who loves you. However in the dating scene there are many false leads. Most of the time it"s a woman who falls in love with the man and ends up with her heart broken, however recently more men end up falling in love with a woman who isn"t the one. For some men this is an ongoing trend. Before you get down on one knee and pledge your life to a woman there are a few things you should ask yourself.

How long have you known her?

If the answer is less than a year, get off your knee and go on some more dates. This is a hard thing to do because usually your emotions are telling you the exact opposite. But until you have been with a person at least a year, there is still plenty you don"t know about them. This is the reason divorce rates are so high. Act on logic, not emotion. Usually that is easier said than done. Think about one thing however. If she is the one, what"s the rush? If you"re scared that she may go away if you don"t act soon, then she isn"t the one. I"m not saying date the woman for 5 years. But if you met her last week and tell her you love her, and then 2 months down the line you ask her to marry you…..well you"re heading in a bad direction.

Do you know her history?

Ah Skeletons in the closet, you"re curious about her past, but scared at the same time. This is perfectly normal. It"s easy to just turn a blind eye and pretend you are the first guy she has dated and she has no previous history, but it"s not recommended. Now don"t go hiring a private investigator. If you have to do something like that then the relationship is already over. But don"t be scared to ask her questions. If some things about her past don"t add up, then ask her about it. Do not accuse her of things because then she will get defensive and that can cause more problems. Remember, rarely do skeletons stay in the closet. If there is something bad from her past that you don"t know odds are it will come back at the least opportune moment. If you find out now then it probably won"t affect you much. But if it just "pops up" then it can be devastating.

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