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Expectations which are not based in reality can ruin a relationship with a girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse. Here are three expectation mistakes to avoid.

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Another relationship has turned sour. The magic is lost. Sometimes it seems like a bad tide comes through, and suddenly, everything wonderful about your relationship with your girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse, has disappeared. The reason that the relationship probably failed was because one or both of you had expectations that were impossible to meet. This does not imply that you shouldn"t seek the best characteristics in a partner. The key is that what you are looking for is already visible in the person, which also means that you know what you want. However, taking the following measuring sticks to a potential partner will often lead, sooner or later, to a bitter parting:

Expectation 1: I will change them. Everyone is guilty of trying to change their loved ones. We do it to our children and closest family, blaming our forcefulness on the potential we see in them. What we forget, is that encouragement, not hounding, is the only way to lead someone to a choice or change, and that still does not guarantee success. Encouragement is what gives your loved ones confidence and self-worth. Self-worth is what motivates people to do something that they have always wanted to do. Notice, that whatever change it is, it has to be something that they really want to do, not something that you want them to do.

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